Unfortunately the process of learning in life is based for too many people on a simple and dualistic principle: success and failure. While it surely holds its empiric and real value, this way of handle things, especially in love and sentimental experiences doesn’t work too well. Love (himself, herself or itself, is female or male?) is brilliant in colors and has many faces as a diamond and shines differently depending on the context and the persons involved. After a sentimental failure it is quite normal to have a feeling of emptiness and even revenge and due to the dualistic attitude described above there’s the strong and unconscious custom of bringing into the new love affair the past issues. Truly understandable and human but too toxic.
By an Haitian perspective when too many unsatisfactory partners appears, some fierce Loas may have entered in angry mood to protect us from further damages. Those Spirits, often Erzulie Dantor for single mothers, needs to be fed and sweetened. Prepared for the coming good, keeping them updated and informed well about our plane of existence and time and space conditions which are somewhat different in the astral domain where they dwell and live.

About Manuel Congo

A renowned Palero, Babalawo, Ajarn and Hougan, Manuel Congo lives in rural Italy, where he spends most of his free time touring on his custom Harley Davidson. An avid ethnographer and noted expert on Italian witchcraft, Manuel has spent decades working for elite clients around the world, conducting investigations in locales as far-flung as Togo and Thailand. He enjoys rainy days, BBQ and blondes.

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